Independent? Dependent? Codependent?
For the most part we are a society of independent people. In some ways that statement is an oxymoron—how can we be a society if we are independent of each other? Certainly independence damages community even if it can maintain a tenuous hold on the claim to still be "society." But the Scriptures remind us Who we need to always be dependent upon. Deep down in our heart of hearts we all want someone to lean on. We have a built-in need that won't be denied no matter how hard we try to stamp it out. " As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. Where can I go and meet God? " (Psalm 42:1, 2). The psalmist knows the loneliness and desperation of being independent and yearns for that connection to the only One who can meet his need. " Send forth your light and your truth, let them guide me; let them bring me to your holy mountain, to the place where you dwell. Then I will go to the altar...